I'm thinking that me being so "nice" has turned into a bad thing.

This personality trait has lead me to become tired of giving. Tired of trying to be peoples friends, when in turn they just talk mad shit. I'm tired of doing nice things for people because it never seems to be appreciated. Niceness almost seems pathetic at this point.

Being nice has gotten me places and I won't give it up. But I have learned that being too nice will only lead to people walking all over you and thinking that you're always a Yes Person. I have to learn to say NO.

There are many people who need to learn this lesson. You can't accomplish anything you want, if you're always out there to make everyone else happy.

This is even true for guys. There are so many nice guys out there that aren't getting their leading lady because they aren't "jerks". Why do chicks dig jerks? Because we want something bad, just like chocolate.

I have dated jerks and they are jerks 'cuz they are either two extremes, insecure or full of themselves. Both turn offs, but hey, if they are douche bags we kinda like them.

Why?
I don't fucking know.

**Plz note this isn't the case for some girls. BUT most girls love jerks 'cuz they have some drama to bitch about to their friends.

My advice to you nice guys is be a good dude, not a shitty dude but don't let some hoe take advantage of your kindness.

For the jerks out there, stop being so shitty and get over yourself.

So MY verdict is: I will always be a nice/kind person and be the friendly out going babe I am, until niceness starts walking all over me.


xo